Cortney Farmer
Co-Founder & Head Writer
Cortney Farmer is a believer, writer, storyteller, business owner, and breast cancer survivor. In 2020, she and her husband co-founded The Soft Never, an online community and website dedicated to celebrating the blessings and gifts that come when we eliminate the “never mindset” in our lives.
The idea for The Soft Never came to her when she started to examine just how many “firm nevers” in her own life were limiting her faith, her growth, her healing, her peace, and her joy.
Cortney uses The Soft Never’s social media pages and website as a place to hold all these self-imposed “nevers” up to the light, questioning them until they finally and forever lose their power — and she encourages others to do the same. She loves celebrating others as they shift the lens and limits on their lives to do the very things they never thought possible — or simply never saw coming!
Here’s to anyone serving as their own Emotional Sandwich Generation —simultaneously healing our current selves, reparenting our own wounded inner child, AND creating a safe, loving space for our future older selves to thrive. I stumbled upon the term “Sandwich Generation” in a podcast a few months ago. The podcast described “Sandwich Generation” as…
You’ve done enough watering my friend. It’s time to be garden for once. — Spiritual Asylum — To all our bold, and brilliant, and beautiful: Helpers Mentors Nurturers Advocates Caretakers Supporters Encouragers Cheerleaders And anyone else who has relentlessly and unabashedly spent years, decades, and lifetimes being the soil, the sunlight, and the rain to…
What would you tell your younger self if you had just five minutes with them? What wisdom would you share, what insight would you provide, what warnings would you scream to help them avoid what, at the time, seemed pretty unavoidable based on exactly who we were back then? If I had five minutes…
