Cortney Farmer is a writer, storyteller, and business owner. When she's not developing original content at The Soft Never, she runs Ovel Creative, a digital marketing company that helps clients build and grow their brands. A lifelong New Englander, Cortney lives in Seacoast New Hampshire with her husband and two sons.

Forgiveness is a One-Person Job

Freedom is knowing that there’s no such thing as one-size-fits-all forgiveness — the very moment you realize forgiveness comes in a million different shapes, sizes, forms and distances.   There are two things about forgiveness that I know to be true. First, there is nothing simple about forgiveness. It’s complicated and layered, nuanced and complex in…

Being My Own People

Being My Own People

No matter who you are, where you may roam, or how big and beautiful your life becomes, chances are you know a killjoy. A stick in the mud. A wet blanket. A doomsdayer.  These people are the friends, families, or coworkers who have become so comfortable with their glass being half empty that they convince…