Giving Ourselves The Gift of Closure

“Closure isn’t always a conversation. Sometimes, closure is simply the choice to protect your peace and move forward on your terms.” Quarantine allowed me and my excessively busy brain to stumble into a surprising, but much needed, two-part life lesson: I do not need anyone else’s permission for closure. And (more importantly), I do not…

Making Time for Joy

“We get so focused on doing what’s  easiest for us, expected from us, and right in front of us that we fail to do the things that bring joy to us.”   Lately, I’ve been having a lot of conversations about making time for joy. For years, I regarded joy like an unexpected (albeit beloved) guest. A…

A New Relationship with “No”

Anyone else in a season of saying “no” to things you never thought you would (or could) say no to? Earlier this year, a friend tagged me in an Instagram post about the power and importance of saying “no.” My instant response was: I’m in a new relationship with no – and I am loving it. …

Learning To Unlearn

Sometimes, it’s not what we need to learn next — it’s what we need to unlearn next. Lately, almost everything God puts in front of me either directly challenges or outright contradicts something I thought I already knew. So, I’m not learning. I’m unlearning. Learning is an endless mountain climb where we fix our eyes…